The Best Wedding Registry For Identifying Cheaters
Would you use this service?
So today I received an email from Honeyfund where my ex-fiance and I had registered to fund our honeymoon travels, asking “How likely is it that you would recommend Honeyfund to a friend or colleague?” LOLOLOL
According to their website Honeyfund is “the only gift registry that makes your dream honeymoon happen and powers your happily-ever-after with the help of friends and family — with zero fees. Made for couples who prioritize experiences over toasters, Honeyfund is the most trusted honeymoon and cash registry site with nearly $1 billion gifted.”
Reflecting on their question—would I recommend Honeyfund? Well…I mean I didn’t end up getting married because my fiancé was cheating on me during our pre-wedding party but Honeyfund IS in fact how the other woman, who believed she was in a relationship with my fiancé, discovered that he was already engaged, so in that sense it is the site that saved me from marrying a liar and a cheater so actually…I guess yes, I would highly recommend it?
Maybe they could even change the tagline to:
Honeyfund: Will expose your fiancé’s secret life!
Honeyfund: Will make your dreams come true and send you on world travels but in an unexpected way!
Honeyfund did help me map out all the places I wanted to travel. I set it up alone, I sent the thank you cards alone and signed his name, I paid for the entire pre-wedding trip so my dad with dementia could be a part of our party, where speeches were made and my whole gigantic family welcomed my fiance in with open arms. And the whole time he was having an affair. To say I feel hurt doesn’t even touch the deep grief that it will probably take years to heal.
Tbh every day is still a struggle to DIS-ENGAGE, to not spend my energy looking back at that car crash and wondering why but to instead stay present and focused on embracing it all and turning into art—to ENGAGE with my new show and world tour, the creations that are bringing healing to myself and others, and the feel-good activities that enable me to keep moving forward. Like any addiction, some days are easier than others and I am grateful to have lots of support.
To that end here is my crowd fund my new tour/special, please contribute/share if you are so inspired. Donate here!
Also I’m excited to start releasing Break Up Ambassador vids, tidbits, tips on how to heal heartbreak. Not sure how that will look yet but my friend reminded me yesterday keep it simple, let it be easy, Lazy Boy it! So that feels like one low bar goal/promise I can keep at this time- I will do my best to let it be easy, fun and done.
Love you guys so much, thank you for coming along on this journey with me. It means the world to me!